Observations While Traveling Down the Road of Aging

Month: December 2023

When Grandchildren Grow Old

December 2023

By Richard Fleming

Photo courtesy of Juliane Liebermann

As the end of a year approaches, people commonly reflect back on the past and look forward to the future. I try not to dwell on looking backward, but instead try to contemplate – with a measure of optimism and realism – what the future may hold. This December, for some reason, I’m spending more time pondering what the future will hold for our grandchildren and their generation. What will their lives be like long after we are gone? And I especially wonder how growing old will unfold for them, a half century from now. How will their journey into old age differ from the road we Boomers are currently traveling?

It can seem hard to imagine our grandchildren growing old. During this holiday season, their enthusiasm, excitement, and energy is boundless. But their youthful vigor belies the reality they too will one day face the challenges every preceding generation had to confront – how to navigate the awkwardness and myriad booby traps of old age.

As I think about our grandchildren’s generation aging into senior status, I feel apprehensive. My concern stems from serious and evolving problems they will likely face as they age. While the impact of these difficulties will not be limited to the elderly – all of society will feel the effects – they will hit seniors especially hard.

Before mentioning these problems, I want to reflect on how growing old today compares to what it was like for our grandparents to grow old. The aging process today is not vastly different from the aging process then. Our grandparents had to manage the same adversities faced by seniors throughout the ages: health issues, cognitive challenges, finding living situations appropriate for their needs, loneliness, and oftentimes financial insecurity.

People’s ability to navigate these problems is always greatly impacted by the social context of the time. Our grandparents grew old in a society with a new and moderately effective safety net. Medicare and Medicaid were established in 1965 and these programs significantly improved access to health care for seniors. Social Security, originally established in 1935, was expanded in the 1960s and helped with financial security for seniors. Society was moving in the direction of expanding people’s rights, with the passage of the Civil Rights Act and the Voting Rights Act. Growing old was not easy for our grandparents, but it was a bit less stressful than it had been for their grandparents.

Today, the societal context in which we are growing old is fairly similar to that of our grandparents. The challenges we Boomers face with aging are roughly comparable to those they encountered a half century ago.

But for today’s youngest generation – Generation Alpha – society might be radically different when they grow old. There are worrisome trends which could adversely impact the process of aging later this century. Two of the most concerning are climate change and artificial intelligence.

On the problem of climate change, unless we significantly reduce greenhouse gas emissions, global warming will be much worse in 50 years. The environment will be more difficult to live in for everyone, but especially for seniors. Extreme weather events will become even more frequent than today. Heat-related illnesses and infectious diseases will likely be more widespread. Old people’s bodies are less resilient. We are less mobile. We are more dependent on an intact medical care system. These realities make seniors more vulnerable to global warming. International and domestic climate migration (away from coastal areas and intolerable heat) will almost certainly divert resources and attention away from the needs of old people.

We already are living with the impacts of climate change today. But the damage will vastly increase in the decades ahead unless there is widespread adoption of renewable energy.

As far as artificial intelligence (AI), the potential risks are enormous. Little seems to be standing in the way of AI’s expanding role in society. While societal control today already rests in fewer hands than was the case previously, AI could well lead to a further concentration of power. The spread of AI in our economy and political system could yield a further erosion of democratic input and popular voice in how society should function. AI can exacerbate social divisions, racial inequality, and stereotyping of marginalized groups, including seniors.

Very alarming is the possibility that machines may one day become “smarter” than humans. If this happens, there will be little reason for machine-controlled societies to value old people. Supporting seniors is a costly endeavor, since we consume more societal resources than we add back. For seniors to be accepted and respected members of the social order, large doses of empathy and love are required. Artificial intelligence is the mortal enemy of emotional intelligence. And compassion cannot be coded into a computer.

Any number of other issues could threaten old folks later this century. Without elaborating on how they might affect seniors, these hazards include rising authoritarianism, wealth inequality, food shortages, and more virulent pandemics. The bottom line is that successful aging may be a vastly bigger challenge for our grandchildren than it is for us.

We Boomers already have a difficult time aging gracefully. Do we really want to make growing old even harder for future generations?

We have the knowledge and wherewithal to reduce these risks to our grandchildren. With a new year dawning, perhaps it is an appropriate time to consider whether we have the will to do so.

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Artificial Aging

December 2023

By Richard Fleming

Photo courtesy of Getty Images

I’m not closely tuned in to social media, which leaves me unaware of many developments in our culture. Unless a new trend gains traction in mainstream publications or television news, I probably won’t know about it. Which may be just as well. Many of these social-media-created cultural phenomena are ephemeral and fanciful. My 72-year-old mind has a hard enough time retaining important information, like remembering the plant watering schedule. It’s just as well I remain blissfully ignorant of fleeting fads.

But there is an interesting trend I recently read about which surfaced earlier this year. It pertains to the challenge of growing old gracefully, and has become quite popular on one of the younger generation’s preferred social media sites, TikTok. This site offers what is called an “aging filter” which uses artificial intelligence (AI) to take a person’s current face and make it appear old. Many young people are using this filter to post videos of themselves looking much older than they really are. Doing so is a source of delight and amusement for their friends and followers.

Folks who upload these humorous videos often start their clips without the filter, so they look young, smooth, and unblemished. Then they turn on the filter to suddenly look much older, with wrinkled sagging skin and thinning gray hair. The person posting often voices shock about their new “old” look, though with a wink and a nod so everyone watching the video can share in the joke.

Another approach young folks use to generate clicks is to upload a video doing something they typically present on TikTok – eating out, cooking, doing laundry, decorating their living space – but they “forget” to turn off the aging filter before the video starts. So it seems an old person is doing those activities. Of course, at some point the person realizes the aging filter was left on “by mistake.” They turn off the filter and heave a sigh of relief that they are now back to normal.

As I learned about this clever phenomenon, my first reaction was one of dismay. I felt it reflected young people mocking the elderly, poking fun at us to score cheap points and increase their social media “likes.” There is enough generational conflict in society already. We have no need to further increase the communication gaps and misunderstandings.

But as I thought more about this phenomenon, I realized the humor and dismay provoked by the aging filter may reflect the concern young people feel about the prospect of aging. Some fear growing old more than they fear death itself. The laughter and attention generated by TikTok’s aging filter may stem from anxiety more than from humor.

So I should not overreact to what might be a fleeting cultural phenomenon. I certainly do not want to increase inter-generational tension.

As I think back on my younger years, I can empathize with today’s youth feeling concerned about growing old. In my teens and twenties, I enjoyed being energetic and vigorous. I was not eagerly looking forward to growing old.

If there had been some mechanism to artificially age my appearance in a photograph when I was young, I probably would have tried it out. Would I have found such an image funny? Or concerning? It’s hard to say. But I do know I would not have widely shared this image with my friends and acquaintances. Actually it would have been impossible to do so even had I wanted to, since social media did not yet exist.

Now that I have gained some experience with the aging process, I feel I should try to reassure young folks that it is not as bad as they may think. As I wrote in a previous post, old people enjoy some benefits not available to young people. An aging filter on TikTok may show the physical appearance of aging, but it cannot reveal the pleasures of growing old. Such as they are. Aging filters cannot predict a person’s future.

The main social media site used by old folks is Facebook. What if Facebook offered a “youth-ing filter” that took our images and dropped 50 years off our age? Then we seniors could post videos and photographs where we’re engaged in old folks’ activities, but look like we’re in our 20s. Now that would truly be humorous. But it would also be humbling. Hopefully AI programmers will not pursue this project anytime soon.

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