March 2026
By Richard Fleming

Photo courtesy of Natalia Blauth
Once a week, I try to do a Facetime call with two of my grand-nephews who live in New York City. During the call I read a book to them – currently we’re ambling through The Wild Robot Escapes by Peter Brown – though we also chat about their life in the big city. I’ll also sometimes check in with their parents.
With the recent heavy snowfall on the East Coast, I was worried about how my niece and nephew would get to work, so I sent them a message of concern. My nephew responded with an assurance they would be fine because they were “WFH during the blizzard” (working from home). He then asked how my wife and I were doing in California. I looked outside at our 56-degree weather, and felt a twinge of guilt. As I was getting ready to respond with “fine” or something similar, my wife quickly said, “Just tell him we are WFH also.”
I paused briefly, then told myself, “WTH, we really do WFH every day.” We may not have typical jobs with set schedules, biweekly paychecks, commutes, and days off. But aging is a full-time job and we work hard at it, day after day, week after week. And the same is true of most old folks I know. Growing old is hard work. And much of it is WFH.
So I messaged my nephew back and told him we were WFH also. He responded, “Is there a blizzard there?” My reply, “No, but you know we’re in our 70s, so we WFH.”
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Many younger and middle-aged folks appear to think the silver-haired generation has an easy, slow-paced life. In case any of them are reading this post, let me offer a brief picture. From sunrise to sunset, we seniors are busy beavers. We have to get out of bed, which can be a challenge. We have to complete our morning hygiene activities, and they become more strenuous and complicated as we age. We then need to figure out how to make a reasonably nutritious breakfast.
After our morning meal, our days are consumed with countless activities, including laundry. Cleaning the house. Fixing broken appliances. Trying to prevent houseplants from dying. Keeping up with current events. Discarding clutter. Trying to stimulate our brains by learning new languages or doing word puzzles. Reading books, especially fiction and poetry. Doing some exercise (hopefully). Yard maintenance. Babysitting grandchildren. Grocery shopping. Preparing lunch and dinner. Remembering to take all our medications, the number of which expands year by year. Keeping track of our increasing number of medical appointments, dental appointments, lab work requirements, and vaccinations. Volunteer work. Paying bills while making sure we don’t run out of money. And many more responsibilities and chores. I haven’t even mentioned the work of scheduling in activities we actually enjoy, like spending time with family and friends.
I hope my abbreviated description of our daily activities makes it clear that old folks set the gold standard for productivity while WFH.
And we do all this work despite having less get-up-and-go than when we were young and vigorous in our 50s and 60s. Our mitochondria, vital little structures inside our cells, are fading, which means we have less energy to draw on. It is not unusual for our medications to contribute to fatigue. Seniors often sleep less soundly than younger folks. And then there is the fatigue induced by the chronic illnesses and conditions we must deal with.
Seniors have to do a lot of work with less energy and stamina than other generations. We do not get days off. Three-day weekends are a distant memory. We are not paid overtime. The well-known saying “There is no rest for the wicked” needs revision. Let’s rephrase it: “There is no rest for the wicked and the old.”
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I want to clarify I am not complaining about WFH. While it is true I frequently feel busier now than when I had a real job, I am grateful I have the opportunity to WFH as I grow old. More and more frequently, I learn of the death of a friend, or an acquaintance, or a distant family member. And often they are my age or younger. This is scary indeed. I will gladly WFH for as long as I can.
So when the clock reaches 4:00 p.m. and I start feeling run down, knowing I still have a lot to do before bedtime, I just tell myself, “WTF, you’re so lucky to be WFH. No commute. No parking hassles. You can rearrange your schedule any time you want. You can pace yourself. You can take frequent breaks. If you fail to complete your day’s assignments, you are not called in to the supervisor’s office for a discussion. WFH is great!”
Seniors don’t need a blizzard to WFH. We work from home no matter the weather. Growing old is the quintessential WFH job.
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Very well said, as always. A detailed expose of the stereotype that all of us Boomers do nothing but sit around all day, watch Fox news, wait for our Social Security check and complain about how we don’t understand smartphones, Zoom calls, the internet in general and all those acronyms our children use.
Richard, this blog is ace.
I so easily feel guilty that I’m only working (that is, working professionally, seeing patients, as in the old days!) only very part time. I can still think clearly, I tell myself, so I should be working more.
But all the other things–ADL, or Activities of Daily Living as they are referred to here in England–seem to take more and more time.
Your column lifted my guilt. It took the ‘shoulds’ away.
Thank you.
Keep writing, please!
Best,
Linda
Good one!!
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Brilliant piece! You should submit it to “senior” publications that could take it national.
To your WFH list, I would add such things as “managing investments and family finance,” “managing household garbage and waste sorting,” “writing my magnum opus,” “deciding evening tv watch schedule,” and “paying attention to schedules for things like our Rotary Club meetings, Veterans’ get-togethers, and symphony concerts.”
I was just wondering the other day if I was being lazy! I guess we continually compare ourselves to our younger selves and we shouldn’t. It takes all day to manage food prep, housekeeping, landscape-keeping, laundry, pets, keeping fit and active, and mentally active, then there’s “what counts and what doesn’t as active” because physically, I’m done for the day! The days blow by like a flash too! I’ve had to learn to take a rest between times then feel like I’m a slacker! I used to chuckle when visiting my parents as all they did was plan their dinner meal while eating breakfast. All they talked about was what was for dinner. I’m starting to understand that. LOL! Well timed article!
WFH 🤣 so true … although as a woman I have WFH since I was a child. It’s just that I also went out and worked through my adult years. My day would start at 4:30 am I’d get up and get myself ready for my 6 am hospital shift. I’d pack the kids lunches and get their stuff together for their day then head to work. Get off at 2:30, rush home to meet the school let out by 3. Have after school gear and snacks ready, plus remember to take out something for dinner and start a load. Walk the dog, pay what bills I could afford. Make dinner, run out and grab that construction paper for tomorrow’s homework project due. Oh and a skunk just sprayed the dog again! Baths, homework, stories and hugs! Maybe sex if I can find that place to relax enough. It’s now 11 pm and that was a normal WFH day for me.
Wow things are so much easier now. It’s just me and my hubby navigating our demise🥳♥️🥰🥰